Monday, August 5, 2013

Tragic Loss

Contributed by Berkeley Executive Coaching Institute


We were about to publish this newsletter in July, when a terrible tragedy occurred – Annais, beloved daughter of our founder Mark Rittenberg, died in a tragic accident in Yosemite. Annais holds a very special place in the hearts of our staff and students as she assisted with the logistics during the coaching certification program.  She was always available to help with her bright and sunny smile and sparkling personality. Our deepest condolences to her family - Mark, Penny, Adam and Ingrid. 

Annais loved nature. Here is a beautiful piece she wrote after sunset, 
during a visit to Gamboa point with some friends.



"We are connected forever, because of love" 
by Annais Maya Rittenberg

I got to experience seeing where the land meets the water, where the starry night meets the warm vibrant day.  Seeing the ocean and its vastness, huge turbulent waves look so gentle, magically pulsing, as if fueled by a giant heart. To love and be loved, that is what I felt tonight coursing through my body, flowing through the golden washed grass, between all of us siting on that hill, some in deep thought, some with ear to ear grins, pensive, weeping, smiling, holding each other the space for one another. Thinking about all those who came before us who walked among the pines, whose legs the grasses grazed.  Who goes to experience our Blessed Star, in all of its glory, descending off the edge of our earth, leaving the red, orange, yellow, greens  of its light as it gives over to the night. I felt so part of it all tonight ..... I feel so honored, just everything, to be in the presence of these sacred lands and this phenomenal group of people. 

Read more about Annais here. Donations can be made in her honor to SanWild, the nature preserve that Rittenberg loved since she was a child, at http://www.sanwild.org, or to the Marine Mammal Center in Sausalito, http://www.marinemammalcenter.org


Thursday, June 27, 2013

Inspiring stories from the 2012 Berkeley Executive Coaching Institute participants.

Some of our 2012 participants were inspired to write blogs of their experience at the Berkeley Executive Coaching Institute.
  • Read how Dan Kimble (Founder: Resonance Executive Coaching) found the intersection of Leadership, Executive Coaching, Vulnerability and Love.
  • Read how Carmen Lence (Founder: NextGen), stepped outside of her comfort zone.
  • Read how Megs Holliday (Coach, Therapist, Teacher) found her voice.


"When I had my first real encounter with Executive Coaching as a part of earning my MBA in the Berkeley-Columbia Executive MBA program, I was completely astounded to see first hand the incredible power of displaying vulnerability as a leader.

Fast forward a few years and a career change into Executive Coaching, and I've returned to the Haas School of Business to earn a certificate in Executive Coaching, focused on mastering Executive Coaching skills. 

The environment of vulnerability, authenticity and love led us all to aspire to be our best selves no matter how little sleep we got, stretch ourselves in ways we never would have imagined, and inspired each of us to bring our uniquely powerful authentic presence to the world."

Dan Kimble (Founder: Resonance Executive Coaching).

"It is a warm Saturday afternoon in the Seaborg room at Berkeley Faculty Club.  I’m standing in front of a group of CEOs, managers and a few coaches that I just met a couple of hours ago. Next to me is Dr. Mark Rittenberg who is feeding me lines that I have to complete for everybody to hear: “What I want you to know about me is…” and words start coming out of my mouth, without filter, while Mark encourages me to speak slower and louder, urging me to look my audience in the eye. Next line… and I reveal another piece of my soul, next line… and another piece, next line … and tears start pooling my eyes while my words expose, for everyone to see, my soul stark naked.

You may wonder if I am a bit nuts and this was some kind of group therapy… not exactly. I was on the first day of my training to become a certified executive coach at the Executive Coaching Institute at UC Berkeley. I was one of the 24 participants that, every year, come from all over the world to take part in this transformative experience where, after 10 days of intense emotional, physical and mental immersion in the extraordinary world created by Dr. Mark Rittenberg and his team, you not only become a better coach, CEO or leader, but, quite simply, a better human being…"

Carmen Lence (Founder: NextGen).

"Last year I attended a life changing workshop in Berkeley, San Francisco.  One of the components was voice coaching – in terms of learning to project ones voice with clarity and confidence.  Being a fairly reserved person – especially in a setting where quite honestly, I felt way out of my depth – little ‘ol me, no corporate background, surrounded by a whole lot of way more experienced executives.

That being said – it turned out that I actually quite enjoyed the voice classes – well, for the most part.  The exception being the day we were required to sing.  Yes, sing. Out loud."

Megs Holliday (Coach, Therapist, Teacher).


A message to all emerging leaders from Professor Rittenberg.

Contributed by Dr. Mark Rittenberg


To all the emerging leaders that I have had the pleasure to work with; I praise you for your courage in class - in the words of my great friend and colleague, Dr. Homa Bahrami, for moving from the safety zone to the stretch zone and taking the risk to enter the danger zone. I commend you for your willingness to be vulnerable - the stories you tell are of universal learning and impact. I praise your hard work, your tenacity and your fear - your fear of forgetting the words of your business passion speeches, yet, taking in the words of Nelson Mandela "a long stride of spirit" in order to stand in the center of the world. 

I acknowledge you embracing the concept of "I have the right to be here" as the voice in the head is getting louder. I praise the fact that you have overcome these great obstacles and enter a space that you can truly call you own. 

I especially would like to congratulate the MBA students of 2013. You have undergone undergraduate programs of great rigor and are expecting the same in your graduate programs. When you hear that in Leadership Communications, you will be working on EQ, human connection and vulnerability, a wall goes up. You become resistant and fearful and the self-confidence assumed is not there. You are thrust into the world of spontaneity, extraneous, thinking on your feet. You are asked to be a storyteller. Because you have not experienced introspective self-development, this is a foreign world. Though you have a huge mountain to climb, you end up having creative breakthroughs and massive moments of learning due to your openness, willingness to change, ability to admit emotion, acknowledge success, and learn from your failures. You gain a sense of pride, presence, strength and courage that you never knew were there, and see your missing skills. These specific skills give the new leader a competitive advantage over other new emerging leaders, who have not be exposed to self-reflection. You become an inspiring leader, a people leader as well as an analytic leader.

Monday, June 24, 2013

Meet one of our coaches: Doy Charnsupharindr

Doy Charnsupharindr
In 1995, Doy left his homeland of Thailand to study in the United States.  He had one goal in mind--to make the most of this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity that he was given.  Eighteen years later, that same goal still motivates Doy every day. In fact, it's been the main message he instills in all of his students and the people he coaches.  "I think of my life each day as a page in the autobiography I'm writing," he said.  "To decide if I want to do something or not, I ask myself: 'Do I want this to be a story in my book?'  And if the answer is 'yes,' then I know I should do it."  This thinking motivated Doy to make the bold career change in 2012 from the financial industry to the work he does now in education, training, and coaching.  He's since taught at UC Berkeley, UC Davis, and the Berlin School for Creative Leadership in Germany.  He's also led many workshops in the USA, Asia, and the Middle East for leading high technology, consulting, and financial services firms, as well as non-profit and governmental organizations.

As frequently as he is asked how he decided to switch careers, he is asked how he reconciles being both a Stanford graduate and a Cal alum  - Doy got his B.A. in Economics from Stanford and did his M.B.A. at the Haas School of Business, UC Berkeley.  "It's easy," he replies with a big smile. "I just say I get the best of both worlds!"  It's the same way he thinks about his life--having lived half of it so far in Thailand and the other half in the United States. "I grew up in a multicultural and multilingual family, so I have always valued diversity of ideas and perspectives. It's what makes this job so rewarding for me."  Now, Doy’s goal as a coach and instructor is to be the catalyst for others to discover their full potential as an authentic leader and inspirational communicator.  Or as Doy reminds us, "just think about what stories you'd want to write in your autobiography."

Culture change at Peterson-Cat: Interview with Tom Bagwell, VP of Marketing and Training

Tom Bagwell
Q: What motivated Peterson-Cat to bring in a culture change program into your company?

A: Its been an exceptionally tough economy - we were hit hard. It hit the whole industry hard. While we were enduring the toughest time hopefully in my lifetime, we also acquired four other companies. The challenge that our Leadership faced was how to integrate these other companies into our culture - we were absolutely struggling. No raises, no bonuses, not much fun was being had at Peterson, but we needed something that could break down the silos and get us talking and believing in each other. At one point, our 75 year old construction equipment dealership had nearly half the workforce with less than three years tenure with Peterson. How do you get everyone singing from the same hymn sheet spread out over five companies and forty plus locations? We needed a miracle.

Q: How did you introduce the Brand Champion Program?

So there I was sitting down with the Executive Leadership Team in our annual Strategy Meeting and the topic shifted to what Marketing could do to roll out our (two year old) strategy. We've done the traditional marketing communications:  posters (check),  postcards (check) intranet (check) e-mail reminders (check) business meetings (check), etc... 15 pairs of eyes looked at me as the "expert" in communications and our CEO said, what can we do to get the employees to embrace our strategy?  In a somewhat resigned, defiant and definitely sarcastic tone I said, "Do you want new posters?" - or do you want what it really is going to take to make a difference?  I looked around the table and said, " Half of us were not involved in the development of the strategy, everyone but you (CEO) has a new position with the company after the reorganization" " I know you live, eat and breath the strategy, you sweated blood and tears over each word of our values, mission, vision and strategy, I didn't.  To me they are words on the wall - I don't really know what they mean.  What we need is for everyone to personalize and live these values - as if they are  their own values.  Everyone needs to take ownership of those words and tell their own stories of what Customer First, Integrity, Excellence, Teamwork, and Fun mean (Peterson Cat's values).  What we need if for everyone to believe that they make a difference, that they are absolutely valued and have a role at Peterson."  I wasn't sure quite where I was headed, but I remembered what changed me from being a manager who earned the moniker ("Satan's Soldier" - no joke) to one that believes that my team is absolutely incredible.  Then I continued, "What we need is 1,200 employees who make a difference with our customers and each other every day. We need to have our employees understand that these are not only Peterson's values - they are their own values."

With that the CEO asked, what are you recommending?  I told him about Professor  Rittenberg's work - the value of building a culture of supportive excellence based on empathy, humanity and integrity.  I told him that for all of our employees to get it, it was important that we (Leadership Team) get it". From there, it started with a lunch at the Berkeley Faculty Club with Prof Rittenberg and our CEO... and me.

Q: Tell me about the reactions that your Leadership Team had when they were first exposed to the program?

A:  I was VERY Nervous. Here's the scene: 15 very accomplished, tough construction guys sitting in a room without any tables, only chairs, an hour before the class starts. The questions could be heard, both through their voice and body language, "What the heck is this?" " I'm too busy to be wasting my time" - Fill in any question you think a very busy executive would have and we had it, too. Just like what I've seen Prof Rittenberg do before in terms of connecting to the group, he did it again. I remember the skeptical eyes looking at him trying to gather evidence to reinforce their initial impressions only to hear Prof Rittenberg say, "This is about profitability, customer satisfaction and employee engagement - this is about real business results - I've left the beads in Berkeley and we will not be hugging any trees. This is about what it means to be an Authentic Leader, this is about listening, connection, empathy, inspiration and motivation. This is about seeing the possibilities of what your employees can do, its about awakening the people who've given up or are coasting.  Its about looking in the mirror and saying, "What have I done to make it better for my team?". By the end of the day, I and everyone else  knew more about each other then we've ever known before. It was like we were getting to really know each other for the first time. Executives who have worked together over 20 years now just beginning to understand makes each other tick. It was incredible.

Q: What were the next steps?

A: Immediately after the session, the CEO, COO, myself and Prof Rittenberg sat in my office and the CEO said, "Where do we go from here?" and Prof Rittenberg said, "Everyone goes to class. If they push a broom, they go to class. Everyone becomes part of the Brand Champion Program". It took my breath away, was I really hearing this? Were we really going to train everyone? As I worked with Rittenberg's team to figure how a program like that might work, Executives, one by one, came up to me and said, "We need this." " Don't stop!"  "When is it going to be rolled out?" I couldn't believe what I was seeing. Real conversations were happening, results were showing an impact.

Q: What was the motivation to roll out the Brand Champion Program to all employees?

A: When we decided to roll this out to the Managers as the next level, there was hesitation:  "how can we afford it?" Our COO understood the concern and said in an e-mail to all the managers, "Great question! We are still in uncertain times, and while results are getting better, we're not where we need to be. Peterson is getting very little help from the economy and many of our customers are struggling as well. Put these all together and we realize we can't wait for someone or something else to make things better for us - we're going to have to do it ourselves! It is our belief that we need to fully embrace Peterson's strategy - to be Customer First, strive for Excellence, embrace Teamwork with Integrity while having Fun. We need to make sure that everyone at Peterson can live, practice and espouse our values on a daily basis - we are going to take charge of our destiny. By working together, we can fully take advantage of our significant competitive advantages we have in the marketplace to reach our strategic and financial goals. Simply put, the cost of not doing this training is greater than the cost of doing it.  We must move forward with our strategy." Amazing!!!!!

Stay posted to see the impact of Brand Champion in future newsletters!